LEARNING THE TRUE REASONS

Have you ever been bullied? Stabbed from the back? Witnessed a fight between your family? Cheated? Well don't worry, I feel ya. No one wants to be hurt. Meanwhile, we're all probably wondering why that happened, why it has to be you... And this leaded many of us to depression.

Now, you may noticed that you're putting yourself in this question as the object. This is one of the example of egoism; you're being the primary key of the question. And sometimes, you feel like you didn't do anything wrong, right? It's just happened. So let's try changing the question to "why did they do that?". Remove the egoism away, since the law of the Universe said that egoism will not solve anything ;) and yes, everything happens for a reason. There IS a reason behind the ones who bullied you, or behind the fight your family just did. 

I've wrote about 'the significance of why' few days ago, and this has something to do with that. "why" is the primary key to find reasons, which is why this question is very important. Look at the ones who hurt you. Do they looked upset, sad but trying to hide it by putting a mask that said "I'm the boss here!"? These type of people could be easily observed, you can see the difference between the upset ones and the ones who would just go with the flow... They're actually vibrating energies, and all of us were actually born with this ability to feel each other's energies. Can you guess what your best friend felt today? Can you feel the happiness from your mom when she successfully cook a dish from her newest recipe book?

And there you have it! That's why they did that to you! They're trying to hide what they actually felt, trying to look strong enough, trying to look like they have no problem at all. 

So now, how do you feel? Still pressured by those people who bullied you, stabbed you from the back, or  your family who were just fighting each other? Remember this, objectivism always works! :D

Namaste!~